Two People, a Community, a Brain Tumor, and a Miracle

Yes, a Miracle Can Happen

Two People

miracle

This is first a story of two people, Amy and Jeff. They are friends, lovers, athletes. One of those couples that seem perfect together, have so much fun, are so caught us with each other, yet at the same time are kind, wonderful friends to everybody. They are triathletes (yes, ironmen), so Alan sees them more than I, but when I bump into Amy or Jeff while riding or around town, I am always greeted like the closest of friends.

miracle

I want to tell you the story of a miracle. It will be a little disjointed, as I have pieced it together from what Alan has told me, and from posts on facebook. Amy has given me permission to tell their story, and I hope that other friends that read this will add their perspective as well.

On Thursday, a little over a week ago, I came home to see Alan, looking serious. He told me that our friend Jeff had complained about a headache, had seen the doctor, and they had found a large, malignant brain tumor.  (Amy told me later that Jeff had actually gone from headache, to nap, to coma at their house. She called 911 and they got him to the hospital, where a neurosurgeon was called. He arrived within 15 minutes, drilled a hole in Jeff’s head to release pressure and found that his brain stem had been crushed. An MRI revealed the tumor.) He was scheduled for surgery on Friday. Apparently, the tumor was so fast growing that Jeff had no idea that anything was wrong.

miracle

The Community

After Amy’s announcement, there followed a huge outpouring of love, prayers, support, and memories from friends and family. The community was in action. A facebook page was started, where friends could log in for news, to share photos and memories, and to offer support. Friend after friend stopped by, anxious for information, each sharing words of love and support.

miracle

Just a very few of the hundreds of posts supporting Jeff.

A Brain Tumor

On Friday, Jeff had surgery and his doctors removed 80% of the tumor. One report claimed that the tumor was half the size of his brain. I don’t know if that is true, but I know it was huge. (Amy told me later that Jeff’s whole brain had shifted to the right.) The doctors warned Amy not to hold out too much hope. Chances were that Jeff would never wake up, over one in a million in fact. They expected him to stay in a vegetative state.

miracleAlan and I went to bed Friday night feeling very sad. The thought that our friend, with his vibrant personality, might not make it was so very disheartening. Our hearts went out to Amy and the rest of his family. Then, when I woke up on Saturday morning, I read this:

miracle Okay, this was early on Saturday morning, barely hours after his surgery, and Jeff was responding! While Amy tried to play it down, everyone, all Jeff and Amy’s friends were excited and hopeful. He had already proven that he was one in a million. What else?  Apparently a lot more.

By Sunday morning, Amy posted that Jeff was talking and laughing and cracking jokes. His first words were, “No f….ing way!” They took out the breathing tube and he was breathing on his own. Even the surgeons were using the “M” word: Miracle.

By Monday, a friend reported that he was out of bed and walking.  We finally got to see a picture.

miracle

While hopes were high and the news seemed to be so good, Amy reminded us that this was a brain tumor after all, and the future was still uncertain. She said this to remind us to embrace every moment that we have, just as she and Jeff were doing.

miracle

But the news just kept getting better. Joking and laughing, he was moved out of ICU and into a private room. More pictures showed a smiling and happy Jeff who was ready to start the next part of the recovery process. This is Wednesday, just five days after surgery.

miracle miracle

 A Miracle

And finally Friday, just a week after surgery (less time than it has taken my cold to go away), the words we’ve been waiting for, Jeff is going home. He has a long, arduous road ahead, but he is alive, surround by loved ones, with a new realization of how precious life is.

miracle

 

miracle

This morning, Amy posted a picture of Jeff and the family, saying, “Best night of our lives.” I believe it and I wish them many more just like it.

Want To Help?

If you read this story and feel like you want to do something to help, there are several ways. First, your prayers and good thoughts are wonderful. If you believe in miracles, and after reading this story, how can you not, you know the power of community, the strength of our hope, prayers, good will, whatever you want to call it, coming together as a force to contend with.

If you live locally, a group of people are volunteering to help with bringing meals in to help with the load. If you leave a comment I can connect you with the right people.

Finally, a fund has been started to help with the huge bills that are already starting to roll in. Jeff’s Road to Recovery Fund is set up to take donations from $5 and up. You can click the button below to be taken to the FundRazr page.

I also hope that this story will remind you of just how fragile life is. You need to soak up every moment, every experience, and enjoy every second of this short time that we are given. Please take time today to hug your spouse, children, and friends. Tell them how much you love them and how much they mean to you. I know that is what Jeff and Amy are doing.

 photo Signature_zps65e035a8.png

Need a coach to help you reach your running goals?

LogoI am an RRCA certified running coach and I also hold a Level One USATF certification. I have more than 12 years experience coaching runners of all ages and levels. More information...

Comments

  1. says

    Oh my GOSH!! What an incredible story and most definitely a miracle! I will hold them in my thoughts. Simply amazing.
    TriGirl recently posted…Happy Birthday!!My Profile

  2. says

    Wow! His story had me crying and then rejoicing! I am so happy for him and his family. I have friend going through something horrible right now… I am sending this story to her. She needs hope and to believe that miracles do happen. Thank you for sharing their incredible story.
    Lisa @ RunWiki recently posted…Nuun Lemon Lime Christmas PunchMy Profile

  3. says

    this is absolutely amazing! i will be praying for them daily and putting them on my church prayer chain! god is so good! thank you for sharing this!! <3

  4. says

    Holy cow what a roller coaster. I am elated and hopeful. Please keep us posted.
    Marcia recently posted…Foodie FridayMy Profile

  5. says

    What an incredible story. Thank you so much for sharing – Jeff is truly an inspiration. Sending him and his family love and prayers – I know he’ll continue to exceed expectations!!

  6. says

    wow, wow, wow!! See, the power of prayer is amazing! Jeff is amazing. What blessing to be able to witness such strength. Thank YOU!

  7. says

    I am more convinced than ever that the power of an active body changes the brain as well, for the good. Your story is one that gives hope to many and may spur some to be active. If we take care of our body it will take care of us! All my best wishes to Jeff and Amy.
    KymberlyFunFit recently posted…TheraFit Shoes Were Made for Walking: Product ReviewMy Profile

  8. says

    amazing! thank you for sharing, it’s the time of year we all need a little hope!!

  9. Amy DiBello says

    DEB,
    Thank you so much for this. I have no words but our hearts are strengthened and supported by your touching account of our story. We love you. Would you mind emailing this to me please?
    Thanks everyone for your prayers and love.
    Amy, Jeff, Chris, Jake and Cali
    Anyone who wants to follow Jeff’s story can also join group on Fb called friends of Jeff Rasmussen.

Trackbacks

  1. […] from Live From La Quinta posted an amazing story about a friend of hers who had a brain tumor. Seriously […]

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badge